Is there a universal "now"?
There is no universal present moment, since no instrument reads one and no procedure produces one. What exists is an order of causes: one event comes after another when it read something the other wrote, and events with no such chain between them have no fact about which came first. In a recipe, the water must boil before the pasta goes in, while the cheese can be grated whenever, and nothing in the dinner says when. A timeline is that order with the ties broken, and ties can be broken many equally correct ways. In 1971 four atomic clocks flew around the world. Eastbound they came back 59 nanoseconds behind the clocks on the ground, westbound 273 ahead. Clocks compare only where they meet, since at a distance nothing measures how a signal's round trip splits between out and back.
This answer comes from OPH, Observer Patch Holography. OPH is a rigorous, consistent and complete description of the unified, self-creating computational Universe we inhabit. Its consistency is machine-checked: the fixed point at its core is constructed explicitly, and a theory with a model contains no contradiction.
To understand OPH and check every step yourself, start with the free book Reverse Engineering Reality. It builds the theory from the ground up, and the OPH Notebook answers your questions while you read.
read the free bookask the notebookor ask sage:read chapter 7: Why Is There No Such Thing As Now?watch a universe make its own particles